Sunniva and Leila met when they became roommates
S: It all started backwards, but it ended up bringing us closer together…
L: We didn’t really have a choice. If we disagreed on something, we had to talk it out straight away – because we were living together
S: I used to see relationships as something that was built up by levels and that was also how I practiced them. First level – buy her flowers. Second level – ask her to be my girlfriend.
L: The fact that we have been living together before we even became a couple has sent all your logics out of the window, because it all happened backwards – and maybe it even made you more open?
S: Definitely. I have never communicated with anyone like I do with you. I have evolved so much. I talk a lot more now and I suddenly love to meet new people – which I used to really dislike…
L: We have talked about everything from the very beginning. You have made it comfortable for me to move in my own pace and take it one step at a time. You made the process with me coming out of the closet not just about the emotions, but also about putting everything into words…
S: I feel like we have similar values as well…
L: After I met Sunniva I feel like I can be more of who I am. I didn’t scare her off if I was doing something weird. Sometimes I can worry about making a fool of myself, and feel a certain shame about that… But I realised that this girl wasn’t going anywhere, so I could just carry on with being myself.